Just saw your post on Terraria Tweaker and figured I'd just quickly mention, I have a texture pack uploaded that removes the graphic for most accessories~
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If you just open the zip file and remove the Accessories folder and all png files except "Extra_105.png" then only the pink tube will be invisible. 
(some) Invisible Accessories
Heyo, made this mostly for myself as I simply use the social slot as extra acc slots for when I need them. Figured there's someone else out there who does the same. :p Does not make wings invisible. Simply deleting any png (open zip file and delete) file should make that one show up in game...