To me, both heights seem like they have their downsides and benefits.
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Techhunter_Talon
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Unfortunately, solving downsides for short people is way easier than for tall.
Damn Train
Wow being able to reach higher shelf is such a benefit, 10/10.
Techhunter_Talon
Also slightly faster running speed depending on where that extra height is coming from. Longer strides does mean you cover more distance in a single step.