we have used steam and also direct IP nothing workedAre you using steam to host or direct IP? Have you tried the other option?
If you'd like a guide on how to setup a direct server let me know.
We removed our password and i was able to join him no problem thank you for your time and answers have a wonderful dayDoes your server have a password? If you turn off the password are you able to join?
Run me through what you're doing to host Terraria through steam, and what your friend is doing to connect.
When you tried hosting via direct IP did you forward the necessary ports?