I used to go to MxRP, formerly called MSPaRP. You see, around the time the site converted over to MxRP, I used to be a frequent around quite a few places. Undertaie, MultifandomRoadtrip, so on and so forth. Once those places died down, I went into a period of not only late-stage puberty, but also trying to find a new place to roleplay in that'd at least be accepting of multifandom. (Funny thing though, I'm actually considered "The legend of Multifandom Chats" over there. Whodathought?)
Time passed, nothing of remark happened... but then one day, while I was out looking for any 'ol multifandom chat to get my RP thing on, I found one set in a fancy manor. It wasn't remarkable in a lot of ways, but there was one thing that did a number on my self-esteem.
Blacklist: kinker31.
Yeah. Whoever was running the place aparrently got a whole bunch of supposed horror stories about me, and just decided that rather than try to talk to me about it and see if I'd be a good fit there, they'd just straight up blacklist me because a good-sized chunk of MxRP started to adopt the cancel culture policy: "One strike, you're permanently
ed over for the rest of your entire life, hope you like having a huge bounty over your head". It horribly shocked me back then, but nowadays, I see it as one big disappointing and spineless move.
It is true that I was kind of an jerk (or just plain oblivious) back when NewPaRP was at it's infancy, but I'm fairly certain I've mellowed and matured since then.