DeltaVii
Retinazer
Let's get to the point first.
I'm in a health class, and today we were talking about body images and types. The pages from a textbook we read told us to always have a positive body image, no matter what. Keep your self esteem high, no matter whose opinion of you. I tossed the idea around in my head and came to the conclusion about what I thought about my body image:
Yeah, I'm not fit. I'm not very muscular. But I'm not really overweight. The thing is though, the things that influence our body image mostly come from other people, and what society thinks should be the norm (which is also influenced greatly by media). When I see someone who worked out a lot the past few months, I almost instinctively compare myself to them. Coming to the conclusion that, indeed, I would like to be more fit, less round. Here's the important part.
I think that it's what we do with these comparisons that make or break both our self esteem and body image. I take that desire, and make it inspiration. When you want to achieve something, you need to take the steps to get it. Not sit and complain, like many people seem to do with their body image. I think less of my body image than my friends think of it. When I say something about being heavy, I hear things like "Oh, you teenagers. Always thinking you're fat". As if this opinion can only become negative and destructive.
Ignoring the problem and preaching acceptance won't solve much.
So, mini rant over, What do you guys here think about your body image, or other's opinions about theirs? Also, how do you try to deal with stress? Hopefully this thread can lead to a good discussion.
-Delta
I'm in a health class, and today we were talking about body images and types. The pages from a textbook we read told us to always have a positive body image, no matter what. Keep your self esteem high, no matter whose opinion of you. I tossed the idea around in my head and came to the conclusion about what I thought about my body image:
Yeah, I'm not fit. I'm not very muscular. But I'm not really overweight. The thing is though, the things that influence our body image mostly come from other people, and what society thinks should be the norm (which is also influenced greatly by media). When I see someone who worked out a lot the past few months, I almost instinctively compare myself to them. Coming to the conclusion that, indeed, I would like to be more fit, less round. Here's the important part.
I think that it's what we do with these comparisons that make or break both our self esteem and body image. I take that desire, and make it inspiration. When you want to achieve something, you need to take the steps to get it. Not sit and complain, like many people seem to do with their body image. I think less of my body image than my friends think of it. When I say something about being heavy, I hear things like "Oh, you teenagers. Always thinking you're fat". As if this opinion can only become negative and destructive.
Ignoring the problem and preaching acceptance won't solve much.
So, mini rant over, What do you guys here think about your body image, or other's opinions about theirs? Also, how do you try to deal with stress? Hopefully this thread can lead to a good discussion.
-Delta
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