I really enjoy rougelikes (Risk of Rain 2, Enter the Gungeon, Noita, ScourgeBringer, Nuclear Throne, Hades (though Hades is a pretty not-rougelike-y rougelike) being the ones I play), and I also really enjoy VR games (Boneworks being my favorite from that department), but I have to say my over all favorite game is Outer Wilds. If you haven't played Outer Wilds you are doing yourself a disservice. One thing I will say is don't get too excited with Googling it; the game is based around a mystery, and the gameplay is exploration and basically just exploration, with the game not having any actual progress. Because of this, there are many many things that you can spoil for yourself. I would highly recommend playing it, but for your own enjoyments sake don't Google any hints, even if you get stuck on a puzzle.
Oh, and before you call me out for not having Terraria anywhere in there, I absolutely love the game and it is my most played game on Steam. Of course Terraria is one of my favorites, we're on the Terraria forums!